The Danger of Comparison

J.A. Matteson

Unless I forsake my sense of entitlement I cannot be a disciple of Jesus Christ, I am a fraud. "If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me" (Mk. 8:34). The demands of discipleship are absolute, death to my will is replaced with singular devotion to God's will for my life. We become distracted by what God is doing in the life of other disciples and our misplaced focus inhibits our obedience to God's path for us. Forget about what God has purposed for others, you must follow Jesus. Peter was rebuked for comparing his path to John's, "If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow me!" (Jn. 21:22). Ultimately the destination for all disciples is the same, Calvary. The path to that destination is also the same, self-denial; but the providential outworking of the journey is different. As a disciple of Jesus Christ I must die daily to the inward tendency of self-preservation and self-determination until all I see is Calvary. And God has an infinite variety of providential experiences to test my resolve to carry my cross of self-denial, following Jesus to Calvary. The danger of comparison and the reason for Jesus's rebuke to Peter is because it breeds an entitlement mindset of coveting another's path that we perceive as more desirable than our own. The only thing in this life we are entitled to is death; grace affords every moment of mortal existence. It is good to plan and anticipate the morrow as long as our anticipated endeavors are submitted to God for him to intervene as he chooses. Be alert, therefore, to providences that appear to threaten your sense of entitlement, these are the narrow paths and gates leading to your personal Calvary God has designed to test your faith. To the extent we recognize them and submit to them is the degree to which we have forsaken our life in order that we might find true life. At the dawn of each day let our thoughts of be Jesus, and let us greet every providence throughout the day with childlike trust that our heavenly father is lovingly giving opportunity for us to demonstrate our love and obedience to him by willingly pursing Jesus en route to Calvary.

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